Well, these remarks are hurtful to one's self esteem, and usually are made by another who is unconsciously jealous of your lifestyle. Before you change anything about your personality and appearance do this one thing: Consider The Source. That's right, the source, who said it? Is she a beautiful woman, happy in her own life? Does she have reason to be jealous of you, remember jealousy is innate, and the person might not recognize it at all. Then there is the "Old School" source, just respect them, they really are trying to help. They just don't realize that things change as time passes, and the new fads can be offensive to them.
The best thing you can do for yourself is : BE YOURSELF! At all times. Love who you are and keep people around you that make you feel good about yourself. Looking young is a gift from the lord. If you have been given that gift then run with it! The younger you look, the younger you'll feel, and that's just not a bad thing.
So the next time someone remarks on your wardrobe simply say: "Are you jealous?".

God love you and stay young at heart!
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